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Single parents make great foster carers: Caroline’s story

1 May 2025

Caroline, a single mum and now proud grandma, has been fostering with Thurrock Council for eight years and has helped change the lives of around 30 children.

Her journey into fostering wasn’t immediate. It took several years of thought, attending information events, and the right life circumstances before she decided to apply.

While working full-time at a local council, Caroline was concerned about how she could balance fostering with the demands of her job.

"I worried I wouldn’t be able to foster well while working overtime or responding to crises at short notice." However, these experiences ultimately gave her invaluable skills that would later support her fostering role.

After being made redundant, Caroline knew the time was right. She began her fostering journey with Thurrock Council, which for Caroline, was an easy decision.

"It made sense to me to foster local children."

As a single parent, Caroline found the assessment process easy to manage and appreciated the flexibility to fit training sessions around her own schedule. In particular, she found the mandatory Skills to Foster training engaging and supportive, with plenty of opportunities to ask questions and learn from others.

Since becoming approved, Caroline has mainly looked after children aged five and over, with a particular experience in caring for teenagers. She’s approved to foster sibling groups, provide respite care, and offer emergency placements.

Her commitment to continuous learning has seen her complete a wide range of additional courses, and she is actively involved with her local foster carer association.

Caroline says the best thing about fostering is knowing she’s making a real difference.

"You’re changing a life, giving children a childhood and a better way to grow up. When you see a child who’s happier and more settled because of the care you’ve provided, it makes everything worthwhile."

You can hear all about Caroline's fostering journey below:

Interested in becoming a foster carer? To learn more about fostering visit: www.thurrock.gov.uk/fostering

Or get in touch with Thurrock Council by calling 0800 652 1256 or emailing fostering.adoption@thurrock.gov.uk

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